science of human relationships

Parents are often tempted to criticize their children. I hope you said " not ". But I would not say that. I just say, before you criticize them, read the first one of the classic American journal below:

Forgot your father ALSO
W. Livingstone Larned

Listen bud; father said at the time you lie down to sleep, the small hand creep under your
cheek and hair a blonde curls on forehead the sticky humid. Father sneak in a self your room . new a few minutes ago, when the father read the newspaper are library, one wipe in the very moment the jump. With guilt comes about mattress father.
There are things that think father, son: father behave during this rough to you.
Snap father when you're trying to dress to go to school because you just wipe face with a towel at a glance. And the father does not see you clean
shoes. Cried my father angry when you throw some barangmu to the floor.
When you eat the Morning's father also find fault. you spit out your food. you hurriedly gulp food. you spread butter too thick bread. And once you start playing a new father and pursue Train departs, you turn and wave your hand while you cried "Farewell father!" so forehead while ruckle father cried"stand- up your shoulder".
Then all was repeated in the afternoon. the father's father emerged from the road immediately mengamatimu carefully, looked up to lututmu, memandangmu who are playing marbles. There are holes in the stocking feet. Menghinamu front of his father-kawanmu, and to return to the menggiringmu. Socks and expensive if you buy it you should be more careful! imagine that, sonny, it's out of mind my father!
Do you remember, later, when the father is being read Library, how do you come with feelings of fear with the feeling of hurt in your eyes? when the father continued to read newspapers, because trickness not wait, so you hesitate front door. "You want what?" Father spray.
Not you say, but run and jump towards father, you throw your hands around my neck and kissed Father, hands-the hands of a small closely with the warm embrace, the warmth of God that has been set to blossom your heart and neglect even though not capable weaken . And then you go, make climbing stairs.
Well, bud, right down the newspaper's father hands, and a dash of fear father. Habits father do? habits to find errors in rail: this is a gift for Father as a son. Not mean that father does not love;
Father do all this because my father expects too much from the youth. Measure father are rich with the years of their own father.
And in fact for many things good and true in nature. Tiny hearts have the same magnitude with the dawn of the hill memayungi knowledgeable. All this with the attitude you show spontanmu when you enter and smell menghambur father say goodbye while sleeping. No problem again tonight, bud, father has come mattress edge in darkness, and the father is knees. There, the shame!
This is the fear that weak; father know you will not understand things like this if the father submit to you when you awake. But tomorrow will be the father's father genuine! Father will carib you are, and join if you have suffered and laugh when you laugh. Father's father will bite their tongues when the words do not come out from the mouth of patient's father. The father will continue to say these words as though a ritual: "He was just a child."
Father is concerned feature as a man. However, when the father look now, sonny, bend and lie in bed tired, you see that father is still a baby. Yesterday your mother in a carrying cloth, indeed too many.

Message Author,
(instead of the rail, let's try to understand them. Let us try to understand why they do what they do. This is far more useful and interesting critique of interest, birth and sympathy, tolerance and kindness, "to really know all, we must forgive all")

TEACHINGS THAT WE CAN Take " DO NOT criticize "

Fed Chief Defends Banking Bailout and Predicts Early recover

Ben Bernanke said he expects US economic growth to begin next year but warned that lack of political will could hinder progress

Ben Bernanke, America's top central banker, predicted that the US recession will end this year if policymakers succeed in repairing the banking sector.

The chairman of the Federal Reserve said last night that he expects economic growth to resume in 2010. But he warned that the recovery could be wrecked if there was insufficient political will to solve the .financial crisis

"We'll see the recession coming to an end probably this year," said Bernanke in an interview with US TV network CBS. "The biggest risk is that we don't have the political will ... the commitment to solve this problem, and that we let it just continue," he added.

The US government will soon unveil details of a plan to mop up toxic financial assets, to encourage the sector to lend again.

"I care about Wall Street for one reason and one reason only - because what happens on Wall Street matters to Main Street," Bernanke said.

The comments follow upbeat forecasts from some of the US's largest banks. Citigroup and Bank of America Merrill Lynch both indicated last week that they were returning to profitability - a sign that they would not need more funds from the government.

Bernanke defended the bailout of the banking sector last year, saying it had "averted" the risk of depression, although he also acknowledged public disquiet that taxpayers' money was now supporting companies such as insurance group AIG.

"It's absolutely unfair that taxpayer dollars are going to prop up a company that made these terrible bets," he said, adding that the financial system would have suffered further if these companies had not been rescued.Anger over the rescue of AIG intensified over the weekend when it emerged that its London staff will share bonuses of $450m, despite crippling the company with huge losses on derivative contracts.Bernanke's optimism that the economic recovery will begin next year is not shared for the UK by accountancy firm BDO Stoy Hayward. It warned today that around 36,000 companies will be claimed by the recession in the UK this year. It said the picture will be even worse in 2010 when up to 39,000 companies are expected to fail."The deteriorating economy and expectations of a drawn-out recession has led to a downward revision in the UK outlook and has severely impacted the survival rate of UK businesses," warned Shay Bannon, the firm's head of business restructuring.Analysts at City firm Numis also predicted the economic crisis has much further to run. In a report to clients this month, it said it "expects the UK to be mired in a deep recession through all of 2010". It added there was a risk that Britain might be pushed into bankruptcy by the government's policy of stimulating the economy by increased spending and lower taxes, which will push up the national debt.The Centre for Economics and Business Research warned today that tax revenue from the financial services sector will plummet over the next year, badly denting the government's income from taxes.

science humanisme

There is only one way under Heaven to arouse anyone to do anything. Did you ever stop to think this is? Yes, only one way, and it is making other people want to do it.

Of course you can make someone give you o'clock with hold up guns lateral. You can make your employees want to work with you until you turn back the threat of the sack with them. Or you can make a child do what you want with the exhortation or threat. But these methods are cruel this is not expected to be successful.

One the way that you can do anything is to give you what you want.

What do you want?

Sigmund Freud said that all that you and I do come from two motif: pressure and desire to be great.

Jhon Dewey, a philosopher of America's most famous revealing in a way quite different. Dr. Dewey said that the pressure in on the most basic human nature is "a desire for" the so-called Dr. Dewey "The desire to be Important."

Abraham Lincoln had one start with this letter say: "everyone loves a compliment ". William James said: "The principle in the most basic human nature is needs to be ".

This is a human hunger and that does not loose , and rare individual who can truly satisfy hunger hearts he can handful others in their hands.

desire to be important is what has been the servant of a food store that is not educated and poor motivated to learn some of the legal books found based barrel household goods from the spoils that have been buying with five forty cents. You may have heard about this food salesperson. His name is Abraham Lincoln.

Even history gives many examples: from the interesting people who are struggling get the feeling it is important . Even George Washington wanted to be called "augustin", President of United States," and Columbus invoke obtain title "Admiral Crown prince Ocean and India ".

Some of the evidence that people can really go crazy in the business get the feeling it is important to get a feeling of importance, when they feel ignored in a world that is cruel. In the United States over many more patients who suffer mental illness as compared to that caused by physical diseases other. Combined into one.

When we are not thinking about a problem, we usually spend around 95% of time for us think about ourselves. Now, if we stop to think about ourselves a little and start thinking about things in themselves good people, we need not rely so cheap flattery and false so that those words could almost have been identified before out of the mouth.

One of the most neglected of our existence in this world is award. know how we refuse to give tribute to our son when he brought home rapotnya good, and we neglect to encourage the spirit of our children.

lecturer and public speaker I know of despair when they speak before the public and does not receive one comment that respect. What applies to professionals also apply to the workers office,
store and factory, also in our family and his friends close to our course. In the relationship between humans, we should never forget that our fellow human beings and is, of course, they will be hungry award, this is the legal tender of all enjoying life.

try meniggalkan impressions friendly sense of appreciation in a small way your day-to-day. You will be surprised to see how all of that will spark your friendship.

Pamela Durham from New Fairfeld, Connecticud, have a serious enough problem that where he has an office cleaner who do its work with the very poor. The mencemoohnya other employees and the trash alley to show him how bad the job. Truly bad, productive time to be lost of office it.

Finally, Pam berusah with a variety of ways to motivate this person. He noticed that at times the person is doing excellent work with. Pam decided to praise up in front of other people's stuff. Every day he did the work all the better. And in the end he can do its work very well with other people and gave him awards and recognition. Awards will bring a fair criticism, and while the results waggery someone will fail to make the change as we want.

Ralp Waldo Emerson said " every person I encountered was better than me in certain things. That way, I learned about himself. " If it occurs at Emerson, not a thousand times more effect on you and me? Let's stop what we want to achieve, desire-the desire of us. However, let us try to find things that both the people themselves. Then forget flattery. Grant awards are honest and sincere. Grant awards are honest and sincere. Be "in the receipt of your sincere and careful in providing cheap credit." So people will remember your words, appreciate and
repeat throughout life and believe the words you will be reminded and remember their words that you many years after you forgot.

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Message author,

lessons that must be remembered that "Give the award is fair and genuine."

Science Success

Often we feel the lack of self in this life. We are often faced with problems that make us all the ability to use them. We often can not afford to trust your own ability, so no wonder if we are unsteady with the words of other people. Without we realize, in daily life, how easily we follow the flow environment.
Basically, the environment shape the image of self, both positive and negative. Sometimes if we live a full environment pessimistic in the sense of life, kitapun will be brought out in life like that. For example, a child from a poor family who want to shoot for success, will likely be ridiculed by those who have nearness. Therefore, he finally did not feel confident to realize the ideals.
Do not believe in yourself is the beginning of a failure, we do not have the grip of life that must be held for life. In fact, life takes grip. How do we become easy if affected by other people? For instance, neighbors have a new car, kitapun want to have them. In fact, economically we are not yet sufficient to purchase a car.
such in building wealth, do not unsteady by solicitation of others. Do not easy to follow the words of others without knowing meaning. We must cling to the self-confidence. If we have confidence that "steady," we know how to behave, including the success achieved, otherwise, if we are not susceptible and resistant to the temptations of others, it is very difficult to obtain the wealth of life.
What if in the Business World? Building a business requires a high self-confidence! Many people start businesses with the preparation of a very mature, from the large capital, a letter licensing, technical-marketing techniques are mature, up to management. But they will not believe the ability itself. What happened? Fold away bed in the business travel.
Any business will never walk without flawless maximize confidence. Logikanya, how our customers will trust the business that we wake up if we do not have trust in your own business?
Do not expect other people to believe in our own business, if we do not have their own beliefs.